Let’s face it: it’s 2018, and we should be wise about why “Cosplay is Not Consent” is important. But there will be some who don’t think it is, or people coming into our community who are unaware.
I put a message out to my cosplay and photography friends for their views on it, and here is a summary of their and my views.
Just want to thank the people who contributed to this article, couldn’t have compiled this article without your help.
Feeling safe
Everyone who goes to comic con, expos, events, etc expect to be in a safe environment. We are all there to have fun, not worry about where the next annoying thing will come from.
Being treated like a person and with respect
Just because they are wearing a costume, no matter how revealing, highly detailed or fan favourite costume, DOES NOT GIVE YOU AN OPEN INVITATION TO TOUCH THEM. Cosplayers are people, not toys to be played/handle with. Any physical contact will need permission first, and that includes hugs, touching/groping. kissing, grabbing of props, etc.
They are not actually that character
Just because they’re dressed as your favourite character, they are still normal people. They might not necessarily want to repeat the action as the character does.
Also, if you are cosplaying a character, you don’t need to be that character from the moment you wear it till you take it off. Please also know your boundaries, don’t be, for example, kissing people, being annoying, running into people’s scene/space, etc.
No means no
When asking for permission to the above and also asking for photos, if they say no, do not take it personally. The reason could be relating to their costume not being ready, they are eating and not in the best of positions.
“Cosplay is not Consent” doesn’t stop at Comic Con
Please, when messaging/commenting on cosplayers’ or photographers’ pages or photos, if you believe it’s a comment your family would want to read or be proud of, otherwise don’t. No one wants unsolicited comments to read about a cosplay they are proud of.
“I’m eating”
When cosplayers are eating, that is not the best time to interrupt them if you want to take a photo, nor do they want photos of themselves eating whilst in cosplay. Let’s face it, no one looks good while eating.
Sniping with your camera
PLEASE…ask permission before taking someone’s photo. If someone is taking a photo already, just wait for your turn or even ask if you can just quickly jump in if you just want to take a photo or two. You’ll have a much better photo if you get the attention of the cosplayer for your camera, rather than a ‘distant’ looking photo.
But what can I do
It’s great to see Reedpop applying their care cosplayer and visitors by putting up these banner as seen above, which I’ve seen done at NYCC, London Super Comic Con, Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo. But you see someone in distress, first offer a hand or invite stewards to intervene. If you are assisting, please make sure the cosplayer is with someone such as a friend, steward, or yourself such they need it. Never raise your hands or voice in any confrontation.
There are the main points, but if you think there are more I should include in this post (I’m willing to update this post), please let me know, but more importantly, share this on your page, friends, people who are unaware, so they are more aware.
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